There's a lot to be gained, even in our health, when we embrace change, says environmental health expert Dr Peter Dingle.
"Within
every setback there is contained the seed of an equal
or greater advantage or benefit": Napoleon Hill's observation after
studying successful people for 22 years.
Change is inevitable, we can't stop
it. Within everything is the seed of change. The laws
of physics recognise that it is the nature of all matter
to change. Change is the natural state of the universe
from the smallest sub atomic particle to the most complex
of organisms. Our cells are constantly being altered,
created and destroyed, as our bodies are renewed. There
is no such thing as an enduring status quo. The law
of continual change applies to physics, biology and
all aspects of our lives including our personal growth.
To try not to change in a world that is changing around
you is not only futile, it's self defeating. Doing what
you did in the past will only get you to where you wanted
to be yesterday. To succeed tomorrow you need to do
something different today, to change both what you are
doing and how you are thinking. Einstein himself said,
"The level of thinking that has got us to where
we are now is different to the thinking we need in the
future".
If we accept that the only constant
in life is change, then the important questions are
how to embrace change; how to manage the effects of
change; how to manage our lives and ourselves during
times of change and how to create beneficial changes
in all aspects of our lives. When Charles Darwin proposed
the survival of the fittest, he was not necessarily
referring to those with the biggest muscles or brains.
He was also referring to the most adaptable - those
who can cope with change most readily, those who are
sufficiently flexible to grow and develop.
The desire to meet and overcome challenges
is fundamental to being human. Obstacles, setbacks and
hard times have the potential to make us the best we
can be. The capacity to respond to change is what took
our ancestors out of the trees in Africa and has enabled
us to build cities and taken us into space. Challenge
is what we seek in our youth and we respect and admire
others when we see them meet it. Seeing someone else
meet a challenge can touch the deepest part of our emotions.
We don't usually change our habits
and conditioning unless we are challenged, so changing
is also about the courage to examine the choices we
make in our lives and challenge our behaviour and our
thinking. We have to make the choice, the conscious
choice, to continue to grow and actively pursue the
personal challenges we set for ourselves. Then we need
to have this in the forefront of our minds and to keep
prompting our subconscious mind with how we want to
maintain and sustain our body, mind and spirit. Meeting
these challenges is what will make us. Our other choice
is to stagnate, to go backwards, stultifying our creativity
and potential.
Change creates opportunities for us
to make new and beneficial choices. Within every challenge
is the potential for a new and alternative future, one
that you may have never envisaged but for that setback
or obstacle. Adapting positively to change, or making
changes for yourself now, will repay you many times
over in the future. In hindsight, you'll see those changes
were so obviously necessary and beneficial that you
will wonder why you didn't make them earlier.
Sometimes change is painful, but difficult
challenges can bring us the greatest rewards and deepest
satisfaction. Without a willingness to change and to
challenge ourselves we remain trapped in the past, locked
into our conditioned patterns of behaviour. Life changing
events such as a major illness, loss of a job, the breakdown
of a relationship or the death of a loved one bring
with them our greatest pain, but also the greatest opportunity
to challenge ourselves. Whether it be emotional or physical
pain, this is an enormous opportunity to grow. Or as
Paramahansa Yogananda said in Journey to Self Realization,
"Your trials do not come to punish you but to awaken
you".
Successful people are those who have
the capacity to meet adverse circumstances and grow
by the experience. The changes keep coming and they
keep meeting them. Creating change or adapting constructively
to it, takes time, energy and focus. Some of these circumstances
are enormous in their impact, others small. Whatever
they are, they help us improve in everything we do.
In fact, changing ourselves is one of the most important
protective mechanisms we have.
We grow only when we push ourselves
beyond our normal limits. We can build muscle bulk and
strength by systematically challenging it. Our immune
system also grows stronger if it's challenged. As kids
we suffered with various childhood illnesses. These
made our immune system more robust through the development
of antibodies, giving us protection. As we adjust to
change we also grow stronger, and have more resources
to meet future challenges. There is, however, a crucial
factor here - the need for a period of recuperation
and consolidation. Just as our bodies seek balance and
harmony through the process of homeostasis, so we also
need to allow times of rest and renewal, establishing
a period of equilibrium. Too many changes too quickly
can be destabilising and depleting.
There is overwhelming evidence that
if you keep challenging your mind your risk of dementia,
including Alzheimer's disease, will be lower. Cancer,
heart attack and stroke patients who challenge their
diseases live longer, with better quality of life and
have a better survival rate. In a study of 1600 patients
with diverse health problems, from back pain to cardiovascular
disease, prolonged bed rest resulted in a longer average
recovery time. Those patients who challenged themselves
to get out of bed as soon as possible recovered more
quickly. Stroke victims who use their 'good' or unaffected
side, such as their right arm, to do all the work, can
get by quite well, but will lose a lot of the function
in their other arm. However, if they tie their 'good'
arm so that it can't be used and challenge themselves
to use their damaged arm, their chances of recovering
the ability of that arm are dramatically increased.
These sorts of challenges are extremely difficult, requiring
much persistence and patience, and a high tolerance
for frustration.
As young children, we continually
challenge ourselves. Ask a five year old if they can
sing, dance or run super fast. Their response is "Yes".
Ask if they want to learn a foreign language. You'll
get the same response. Ask a 15 year old those questions
and most of the answers will be "No". We soon
learn through peer pressure that it's "safer"
to conform, that it's 'cool' to be part of the group.
At puberty we become acutely conscious of what everyone
else thinks of us and we begin adopting what we perceive
as more "acceptable" modes of behaviour -
the behaviour of the group to which we want to belong.
Many of our greatest innovators were ridiculed in their
day. Great thinkers, musicians, artists, inventors,
and those involved in social and cultural change were
labelled as eccentric, even crazy or stupid or time
wasters by the powers that be - those who resisted change.
Throughout our childhood and throughout
life we are conditioned, and we develop a comfort zone.
As we age, we fear stepping out of this comfort zone
and our fear is often far greater than the situation
warrants. We may associate with friends and develop
pursuits that keep us in our comfort zone and reinforce
our old conditioning. We are influenced and conditioned
by the media in all its forms, particularly television,
all types of advertising and movies. We find we are
living a life that is non-challenging. The problem with
our comfort zone is that it becomes smaller and smaller
unless we take steps to expand it. Once you start pushing
the boundaries of your comfortable limits you'll feel
more comfortable with change than with complacency.
It's the acceptance of the comfort zone that prevents
many people from being successful. Most people don't
succeed because they don't challenge themselves.
Challenging our thoughts, beliefs
and actions is difficult. Repeating the same patterns
and rhythms every day is what the ancient reptilian
brain loves. Nothing out of the ordinary. You know what
is going to happen. The mammalian brain thrives on the
stimulation of challenges and change. Challenging our
routines and habits demands energy and focus. Whether
the change you initiate is avoiding certain foods or
taking up an exercise program or meditation, brain scanning
techniques and laboratory experiments have shown that
certain types of activities require more 'brain energy'
and greater brain activity. Challenges, complexity and
novelty are the things that light up both hemispheres
of our brain.
We are often so busy in the 21st century
that we say we cannot find the time to invest in our
own wellbeing or challenge the patterns that are slowly
killing us. As a result we just keep plodding along
in the same direction. Beneath the "being too busy"
to change is often the denial and avoidance of our unwillingness
to change. Avoidance can be a useful short-term skill
which will help you through difficult times. However,
long-term it only compounds the problem and creates
more obstacles.
We often choose to ignore information
if it does not suit us (our conditioning). People eat
nutritionally empty foods, don't exercise, make health
depleting choices and then are surprised when their
health deteriorates and they become ill. Illness is
also change but not necessarily a positive one for our
physical wellbeing. We can prevent some illnesses and
disability by making better choices, and we can make
those choices now rather than become the victims of
our own complacency.
Challenge is never far from the horizon,
and we are better off going to meet it than trying to
hide from it. It is easy to continue to do what you
have always done. It is too easy to drift along without
making any effort to change your habits or your attitude.
Inaction leads to more inaction and one day inaction
has insidiously taken control of your life. Lack of
change and challenge isn't only boring for our mind,
body and spirit, it is deadening: "If you're not
ripening you're going rotten."
Albert Einstein said, "Life is
like riding a bike; once you stop, you fall off".
Maybe it is time to get back on that
bicycle and challenge yourself?
Dr Peter Dingle |